Out on the other side.

Hello, is anyone there? huhu...it's me, Desola. Is anyone around? I guess not.

I have been away for a while, as a matter of fact, I didn't think I would return. Have I returned, actually? I don't think so but I thought to check in and see how things are going. Do people still blog at all? It doesn't feel like before, i'm sure you'll agree. How are you all by the way? Fine I hope?

Mama Lopes, I would like to thank you most especially for checking on me. I really am grateful. I felt touched when I read your comments - its good to know that there is someone out there who cares. How's Lopes? I'm sure she's grown into a damsel. My greetings to her o. Maybe i'll bring little miss know-it-all to visit her someday. I'm sure they'll get on like a house on fire.

Well...what have I been up to? Nothing much really. My life has changed immensely that's for sure. I have been shaken, challenged in so many ways. It's actually a miracle that i'm still with my senses. I thought i'd lose it forever. You know something? Challenges can be good as it forces you to bring out the best in you. When faced with a problem, you will have to chose either to face it or leave it. I faced my challenges and boy! oh boy! Was it tough?

Some people have referred to me as the ice queen. They say I can be so cold at times, some have called me arrogant while others say i'm selfish. I don't blame them, infact, I bear no grudges at all. That is how they see me. It's easy to judge when you haven't walked in the other persons shoes.

Changes have taken place. oh yes, big changes, and in time, i'll be telling you all about them.

In the meantime, I say take care of you and all around you.

See you soon.